I'm a 25 year old unmarried male Indian citizen
My parents live in Dubai and hence I fly there atleast once every 3 months on a tourist visa.
Departing from India, immigration often grills me on if I am holding a job outside India, why do I travel so frequently, if I am "absolutely sure" I am not working in Dubai and so on. (I do not have ECR(People below a certain education level have an ECR stamp which means they need Indian governments permission to leave India under some circumstances))
In Dubai, without fail the customs guy at the exit will pull me to the side, go through my passport, ask where I am going to and after seeing all the UAE stamps again repeat the same Q&A process I went through in India
The flight back to India is usually OK (I hardly have anything with me)
Are there specific behavior patterns that can avoid such questioning from India - UAE? Or is it something I just need to live with?