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How to politely ask people from East Asia to give way while walking / browsing stores?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people from East Asia to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that at least my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of Asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ East Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think andWhat is the possible reason why I askedfor this behavior and how can I politely ask to give way which is becauseculturally understood by East Asians? Or how can I didn't wantask to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture /give way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!a way which is universally understood?

How to politely ask people to give way while walking / browsing stores?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of Asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

How to politely ask people from East Asia to give way?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people from East Asia to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that at least my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of Asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ East Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

What is the possible reason for this behavior and how can I politely ask to give way which is culturally understood by East Asians? Or how can I ask to give way in a way which is universally understood?

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How to politely ask people to give way while walking / browsing stores in Australia?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of asiansAsians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

How to politely ask people to give way while walking / browsing stores in Australia?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

How to politely ask people to give way while walking / browsing stores?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of Asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

trying to lessen the Asian target - sure there are a lot of impolite people
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How to politely ask Asianspeople to give way while walking / browsing stores in Australia?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that most of the timeoften when asking Asianspeople to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this asianAsian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ asianAsian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

How to politely ask Asians to give way while walking / browsing stores in Australia?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that most of the time when asking Asians to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

How to politely ask people to give way while walking / browsing stores in Australia?

I've arrived in Australia 9 months ago and I've noticed that often when asking people to "give way" they will simply ignore me or even answer a "yes" but not move at all.

This is a situation that my wife, friends and work mates also faced a lot of times.

Some examples:

  • I went to an electronics shop some days ago and there was this Asian girl standing in front of a product section that I wanted to check. She was texting on her phone. I politely asked "can I take a look at these?" and all she did was nod her head and still block the view.

  • Leaving the train. Several times I was trying to hop off the train and a group of asians would block the way and ignore my desperate "excuse me, guys".

  • Groups of 5+ Asian people blocking the pathway while chatting and/or texting. "Excuse me" also didn't work.

  • Same as above, but getting hit in the shoulder by one of them and not even getting a "Sorry"

So obviously I don't know if it's a cultural thing or not. It just seems that our standard "excuse me" has another meaning to them.

Edit: Apparently people got offended when I specifically targeted Asians. I know it sounds like prejudice, but if you don't live here or never came here then please don't bother answering. It's more common than you think and the reason why I asked this is because I didn't want to do something that might offend them (in terms of culture / way people walk in the streets of Asian countries).

Much appreciated!

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I edited Asian out, as that makes the question downvote inviting, and it is not restricted to one specific group.
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