In a bit of a pickle here, I was hoping to travel in the next week to the US for a brief holiday (admittedly not the most calm of times but I haven't seen some close friends and my boyfriend in years.) As the title says, I was rejected for ESTA. I've travelled on it once in the past with no issues or violations, the only difference is that since then I received (after many bans and delays) a diversity visa/LPR, but with ongoing other travel bans in both the US and then in my home country (Australia), even with lawsuits and ensuing extensions I was both unable to and admittedly also made the decision not to activate my visa based on astronomical flight prices and covid risk. I'd primarily wanted to keep it on hand as an option if I did want to work elsewhere in the future or my life circumstances changed further.
So my question/s are: Do you think this is the most likely reason I was denied ESTA?
Is there anything I can do outside of apply for a B2 or something similar? Wait times for the Sydney consulate are sitting at almost 3 months currently.
Would listing the visa under 'previous IDs for travel issued by any other country' part (even though it was never activated and is now expired?)
Do I need to fill out this relinquishing of LPR status form I keep reading about in similar questions even though I never activated my visa?
And just generally, ofc I have no plans to move to the US without proper documentation, but that doesn't seem to always be enough for US immigration.
I just really miss my loved ones and I'm losing it a bit, it feels like knockback after knockback and we're really, really starting to not cope.