this is the respons i got from CBP unclear answer ill try to get it clarified further by the local embassy but for now this is what i got.
Response Via Email (Contractor - PIO) 05/21/2019 10:55 AM
Thank you for contacting the U.S. Customs and Border Protection, Traveler Communications Center.
VWP travelers should be able to demonstrate that they are a legitimate visitor to the United States and will comply with the terms of their admission. While there is no explicit limit on how long VWP travelers should remain outside the U.S. before returning, please realize that travelers who are spending significant periods of their time in the United States may have difficulty demonstrating that they are legitimate visitors. This office cannot discuss or provide further advice on specific admission/inspection issues because in the same way that a valid visa does not guarantee admission to the United States, an approved ESTA is not a guarantee of admission to the United States. The admission of all visitors to the United States is determined by the Customs and Border Protection Officers at the port of entry/border. If you have additional concerns and would like further clarity on your admissibility to the United States, you should consider applying for a visa at the nearest US Embassy or Consulate.
CBP Traveler Communications Center