Long story short. Last 2013 I caught overstaying in Denmark for 3 yrs I was sent back to my home country and thats 5 yrs ago now. And also now I want to apply for a Schengen visa again to visit my girlfriend in Netherlands. But I am afraid to get refusal for what happened 5 yrs ago. Is it really a big chance that i will be rejected to have a new visa? Please help.
You would have to convince the Dutch officials that this time, you won't overstay. Can you make a credible explanation why that won't happen? Saying "I wouldn't do that, honestly" won't be enough with your history.
- It might help if you had a stable and well-paid job that requires you to return. Something no sane person would give up, even for a girlfriend. Earning more than you could in the EU ...
- It might help if you were very young in 2013 and more mature now, but you are not much older now.
- If you have lived together with your girlfriend for a long time, you might have a chance for a dependent visa. Ask on Expatriates Stack Exchange. (But personally I doubt that will work.)